Today I felt this post was necessary because me and my boyfriend had a talk :] this is to the girl/boy with or without a girlfriend,that person who thinks they aren't pretty or handsome. You may be put down by others saying otherwise but let me tell you: You are BEAUTIFUL/HANDSOME. People only say things like " eww youre so ugly" "oh your hair looks horrible today" or just down right rude things to hide their own insecurities. These are called in our modern age haters. Sad part is half the things they try to convince you are wrong with you they have a problem with it themselves. THEY WAKE UP IN THE MORNING AND THINK THEY ARE UGLY. THEY WAKE UP IN THE MORNING AND HATE THEIR HAIR OR THEIR OWN SKIN. Never let anyone bring down your confidence. I know its hard especially if all you hear around is what's WRONG with you,never what's right. Admittedly sometimes I dont feel pretty so I put on some makeup in the morning to mask or distract from my dark circles under my eyes or whatever I'm not really liking that morning. Theres a difference between not liking something about your face THAT morning and just hating how you look in general and hating your own skin. No matter what skin tone,race,whateevr you are YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL. dudes(though they wont admit it most times) feel insecure too which they shouldn't. Always rememebr this quote, I saws it on twitter last night "No matter how ugly you think you are, there's someone that believes youre the most beautiful thing on earth,and nobody can change that" Honestly I don't know whos quote that is haha but it really stuck out to me because it's true. Most days I wake up naturally I look like crapx1000 yet to my boyfriend I'm still the prettiest girl on the planet. I always think he seriously needs to get his eyes checked but although I may complain about maybe my dark circles under my eyes to my eyes not being an extravagant color or WHATEVER I still wouldnt want to be anyone else. I feel everyone should think like this because as much as that other girl or boy is pretty or handsome you will NEVER be them. You are yourself so you should feel comfortable in your own body. I know we all have those days where this seems so hard but trust me as you learn to slowly compliment how nice your eyes are or how you liek your own smile or find things about yourself you liek that may not even necessarily be physical being you won't feel as bad. No matter who is around you trying to tell you otherwise youre amazing & you should always try to remember that. It doesnt matter whether you are big or small,short or tall,husky or thin. Whatever you call yourself you are an amazing person. Let me also say that complaining about your flaws won't magically fix them. You don't liek it? DO SOMETHING about it. "I think I'm fat." Then maybe do some exercise. Let me also reitterate this. CURVES ARE SEXY. You can do some pushups, situps,or this exercise I used to do in karate..not sure what its called but you basically lay down on your back body straight legs next to each other and try to lift your legs up and down from the ground then try to hold them about an inch from the ground for like....10 seconds? It will tone your stomach..or it should? I'm not an expert so don't quote me it worked for me and Im nothing special with my body I dont exercise ALL THE TIME so if it worked for me it should work for you. Or for those people who go into the bathrooms & throw up because they want to lose weight and have convinced themselves that they are fat. Sweety,no one likes a pencil. No one wants to hug you a certain way in fear of breaking you.. Hey alot of people would kill for your figure they WAY YOU ARE. Theres a difference between skinny and anorexic. Anorexia is not good and obviously not attractive. Don't let the media fool you, men like CURVES. And if a man in yiour life is telling you to lose weight he's obviously an idiot and has issues with himself he needs to get over. Oh ansd let me bring this up right now...READING IS FINE. I like to read things that actually capture my attention. I can proudly say I'm a nerd/dork because I am confident in my intelligence. NEVER dumb yourself down for ANYONE. If a boy wants you to be stupid to go out with him hes not worth it. He's going to wish he could go out with you when he sees how confident you are and how INTELLIGENT you are. Show him you don't need him especially due to the fact he didnt realize your *pause* dare I say it AWESOMENESS to begin with! Thats goes for any gender. A smart male is just as attractive as a smart girl. At the end of the day looks only get you BUT so far. If you want to hang with the "popular" crowd who act like bimbos they arent worth your time. Like I said earlier the people who put you down are jealous. That popular girl putting you down because youre smart is jealous because she knows she doesnt even know how to spell the word idiot without referring to something. Thats how the world unfortunately works. People make fun of you because you have something they want.Im starting to ramble and this is becoming long so I'm going to end it with this : you can be chubby,skinny,big chested,flat chested it honestly doesnt matter. Personality shines through no matter what. Would you rather date someone who has the media version of perfect body whos a jerk or someone who has a little weight on them but the sweetest person youve ever met? yeah id pick the second one. And also something I didnt really go over. Too much makeup is not attractive....at the end of the day you have to take it off...when you look TOTALLY DIFFERENT with makeup on then without it thats an issue... I have tons of male cousins and none of them like a girl with a lot of makeup on and I completely understand that. Makeup was originally made to ENHANCE your NATURAL beauty not to hide it. If you look like snooki youve got too much on. Im not saying it has to be ALL natural I mean eyeshadows are nice but remember makeup has to come off at some point and you have to be confident in whats under it. Embrace that beautiful natural face. :) P.S I do random post about confidence. You don't like it don't read it. <3